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Mindfulness and Acceptance

Mindfulness and Acceptance

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Mindfulness and Acceptance

In life, there are things we do not like, there are situations that make us unhappy, there is pain, illness and loss. While some things can be fought and overcome, there are others that we cannot change, no matter what. Fighting against these in fact increases our suffering, while letting go and accepting can bring relief.

To bring acceptance into your daily life requires mindfulness. And mindfulness is a life skill like any other that must be cultivated. When we are mindful, we can look beyond negative emotions to see what the real problem is and confront situations rationally.

Practising mindfulness

Mindfulness is the practice of focusing on feelings, thoughts and bodily sensations in the present moment. The act of focusing in itself distracts from ruminative and negative thought patterns.

When you find yourself consumed with lingering negative thoughts, find a quiet space where you can sit and be by yourself. Close your eyes, observe the thoughts as they pass through your mind one by one, all the while inhaling deeply. Understand that it is okay for the thought to occur. Pause for a second, then exhale and imagine the thought leaving your mind with your breath.

It is important that you pay attention to the physical as thoughts come and go. Do you feel tension in your body? Is that tension always in a particular place? Do you feel pain? Are you perspiring? Is your heart beating fast?

It is also common to become aware of micro-sensations when you are in a mindful state – pain or tingling for example. As long as the pain is not overwhelming, continue doing what you are doing, observing the sensations come and go.

When it comes to your mind, observe any attempts at resisting the thoughts. Does the thought then fade away, or is it even more pronounced? Rather than resisting, why not simply acknowledge the thought? There are also emotions that come with thoughts, and you should try to label them: this is anger, this is frustration, etc. Becoming aware of our emotions is the first step in being free of them.

General practices for a healthy mind

While mindfulness does not come easily, and in fact may take a lifetime of practice, there are active steps you can take right now to approach life with a positive frame of mind:

Pay attention to the good things. A great way to keep our minds off the worry track is to focus our thoughts on things that are good, beautiful and positive. Take the time and focus on these even for just a moment. We tend to focus on the negative, and this is perfectly natural, but we can train ourselves to focus on the good as well.

Reach out to others. Tell friends and family when you’re feeling down and let them know how they can help you. In worsening situations, talk to a physician or therapist for professional help.

Practise yoga. Yoga decreases the heart rate, blood pressure and cortisol levels (cortisol is a hormone involved in the fight-or-flight fear response).  

Drink less caffeine. For most people, some caffeine is not a concern at all and may even be a good thing.  But too much, even for people who can tolerate it, will turn things very bad mood-wise. If you are feeling overly on edge, it might be a good idea to reduce coffee and tea as they may be making things worse.

Remember, mindfulness is a journey. There are no hacks or shortcuts to alter our brains. It took years for our belief systems to become what they are, and a few sessions of mindfulness will not be enough to overcome it all. So keep practising and trust that the results will follow!

Nour Hasni - Health & Wellness Advisor, Zulal Wellness Resort by Chiva-Som

Nour is one of the founding members of Zulal Wellness Resort. Her approach to wellness is holistic, one she has adopted into her own daily life based on years of training and practice, and one that she passionately imparts to guests on their journey. Nour has worked in a range of settings, from clinics and hospitals to wellness centres across the Middle East and North America. She is a certified and registered integrative health coach, nutritionist and fitness instructor.

Dr. Jason Culp - Research & Development Director, Chiva-Som

For the past decade, Dr. Culp has held the position of senior naturopathic physician at Chiva-Som in Hua Hin, where he conducts natural wellness consultations with guests. In addition to his role as naturopath, he is the founder and director of the Research & Development department, with the primary objective of evaluating and exploring the use of evidence-based natural therapies in a holistic wellness setting.

Dr. Culp lectures internationally on the topic of wellness. His philosophy is that in order to create sustainable health, guests must fully engage and play an active participatory role in their own wellness process. The empowerment of the individual and the guest’s authentic understanding of their wellness goals, intentions and motivations take precedence in health and healing. In this way, each guest leaves with the feeling that they are the most powerful advocate in their own wellness journey.

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