Is there a difference between ‘mental health’ and ‘emotional health’?

Well, yes. And no. At their core, mental health relates to the health of our minds- the content of our thoughts, whereas emotional health describes the state of our emotions- how we feel. Yet the way we think influences the way we feel, and the way we feel can heavily affect our thoughts.

Managing thoughts and emotions effectively.

How often do you sit and think about yourself or other people? Do you overthink about the past, the present or the future? When something bad happens, which thoughts instinctively develop? When something good occurs, where do your thoughts immediately turn?  Are your thoughts helping you, or hurting you? Are your thoughts helping or hurting your relationships?

Questions like these can build awareness around the quality of our thoughts. While it is often assumed that our thoughts randomly surface – seemingly from nowhere –  in most cases, they follow an automatic pattern that has developed based on previous experiences which can date all the way back to childhood. Becoming aware of our thoughts, and how those thoughts form, can provide us with an objective aerial view so that we can break unhelpful cycles. It can also help us to self-regulate, preventing negative thoughts from becoming negative emotions, and prompting us to reach out for professional help.

Our emotional health is equally important to manage. Our emotions can function as traffic lights, providing signals to ourselves and others. Once we experience a signal, it is useful to track it to the source. If you feel happy, ask yourself where that feeling came from. Is it an internal reaction, perhaps from a thought, or an external stimulus, perhaps from another person, or even good chocolate? Are there ways that you can actively recreate this positive feeling, and can you share it?

With negative feelings, it is equally useful to track an emotional reaction and understand where it is coming from. It can signal that there are parts of ourselves that are sensitive to certain experiences – these parts of ourselves may require attention, extra love and hard truths.

Sometimes, tracking the root of a feeling may not be all that easy, or the emotional load may feel too heavy. This is where support from a loved one or a professional is most helpful. They can bear the weight with you, or maybe just provide a neutral perspective or an unbiased insight.

Whether positive or negative, emotions have to be acknowledged and addressed. If they are not they can cause damage to our thought patterns and even to our physical bodies. Repressed emotions also affect our relationships. Achieving emotional stability relies on being truthful about how we feel, in good times and in bad.

As emotions are part of the way we communicate with others, silencing them can lead to miscommunication. There are healthy ways to express your emotions to others, and healthy ways to listen to someone when they express their emotions to you.

Achieving mental and emotional balance

In order to stay mentally and emotionally well, there are 5 simple things you can do to give yourself the best chance of a well balanced outlook on life.

Breathe: deep breathing is a simple, proven way to bring a sense of calmness to both mind and body. Studies show that calm, rhythmic breathing has an amazing effect on the parasympathetic nervous system, helping you to relax, find calm, and quieten the mind.

Release: journal, indulge in a long phone call with a friend, cry, laugh, rant, and let your thoughts and emotions go. Try to view repressed thoughts and emotions as toxins. You can detoxify your mind, body and spirit by expressing how you feel and saying what you think.  

Listen: equally, provide a non-judgmental platform for other people to share their emotions with you. Listen to understand, not respond. Active listening cultivates a supportive environment. Often during this process you may discover that you are not alone.

Move: feelings of glee or stress can come with a surge of energy. That energy has to be released, whether through exercise, dance, jumping around, or going for a run. As little as a 15 minute walk in nature or a 10 minute boogie in the kitchen clears the mind and releases a bunch of healthy, happy brain chemicals that can shift your mood and bring clarity to your thoughts. 

Eat well: the hormones that regulate mood are made from the foods we eat. Ensure that your diet consists of a variety of fibres, proteins, fats and sufficient micronutrients. Feed your body the fuel it needs to stay mentally and emotionally strong.

Conclusion

Our minds and emotions are the lenses through which we experience life. When faced with a challenge, it is our minds and emotions that determine our response, leading to either negative or positive outcomes. The more mentally and emotionally balanced we become, the better our physical health, our relationships, our careers and our entire lives also become. 

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Sometimes a timeout and  reset are needed to restore mental and emotional balance. Chiva-Som’s tranquil beachfront provides the ideal setting. Time to reflect is combined with a relaxing programme of massage, acupuncture and other holistic treatments, helping restore balance to your mind, body and spirit. If you need a place to start, an Emotional Wellness, or Holistic retreat might be just what you need to achieve or regain a sense of peace and control. Click here to view our retreat.